Behavior Unappropiate for a Shaman

topic posted Wed, May 7, 2008 - 6:29 PM by  Jeb Zeller
I'm new to this tribe and really didn't know all of this existed. I've been involved with shamanism in many forms for many years and recently became involved with what I now understand to be called: Entheogens

And so it goes. This aspect of shamanism is a new road for me and I quite enjoy it as well. Access is "right there".

But, in speaking to others that I have met on this path, I have recently heard some quite disturbing news and I'm rather confused by this. And in researching "tribes" , I see that this is not the first time it has come up. I posted this initially on "Shaman" but seems that "tribe" is not very active and it was suggested that I re-post it here. Hopefully some of you will have some answers.:

I am new here... have been looking into shamanism for a while from the outside in.. and from my research, I have decided that ayahuasa is my direction. I have some friends that are involved in programs in Peru, various shamans too. I liked the idea of going to an indigenous shaman and so I came upon Guillermo Arevalo, Shipibo tribe. His Father was a well known shaman and I have also seen the movie about him called: Renagade
Not really about him, but he plays a role in it. So, I have checked around with people I know that go to the Peruvian Amazon, asking about him. And the response I am getting is that he abuses women. I don't understand this.
And today I hear that he is building another camp because his wife is divorcing him for this?
Does this mean that women are not safe around him? How is it possible that he could do this? And is this true?
and if it is, why?
posted by:
Jeb Zeller
Ecuador
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    Thu, May 8, 2008 - 3:17 AM
    this was really eye-opening for me, maybe it will answer your concerns

    www.youtube.com/watch
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      Thu, May 8, 2008 - 5:33 AM
      so well put arun, ditto for me bro, this issue is the great divider, using icaros and power to seduce people that are under the influence of medicine is a nasty result of working with spirit without proper humility and willpower, many people trip over this obstacle in the medicine way unfortunatley. it is considered very bad and an absolute no no. invasive behaviour is so unthoughtful. people who do that usually say they are doing healing on a deeper level when they get confronted with it by others. thats not supported very well by the stories from people that have been invaded on this level. it has a lot to do with charismatic energy built up around the shaperson, they are centric to the ceremony therefor channeling a lot of energy, power. power as we all know corrupts completely unless one maintains humility and some awe at the beauty of creation and ultimatley respect for the sanctity of life. follow your heart in this, making ones opinion known helps support the consensus that this is wrong, thanks for posting the topic
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        Thu, May 8, 2008 - 5:48 AM
        oh another thought you will to recognize certain lineages of shamen in south america, this behaviour seems to be passed on from teacher to pupil sometimes, this comes from listening to a shaman brag about the time his teacher showed him how to use icaros to seduce women and how well it worked etcetra ad nauseum
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        Thu, May 15, 2008 - 9:53 PM
        This post of Shel B's:
        shamanism.tribe.net/thread/2...e016c581d
        and arun's post at the beginning of thread, are both quite right-on.
        I once (back in the 80s in Santa Fe) met a woman who devoted most of her considerable psychic abilities to helping & guiding gurus of all sorts when they got themselves lost and into trouble, due to the seduction of & corruption by the power & influence that came to them.
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      Thu, May 8, 2008 - 12:11 PM
      Hi Dasha. Thank you for posting this. The man in the video said everything I already knew but, had no right to say since I haven't actually been there. The only enlightenment I ever got from a drug is that it doesn't bring enlightenment. No drug has ever made my life more meaningful or given me a direction to take. Mushrooms made me feel connected to the earth but, I could have gotten that feeling from long distance running. It seems the curanderos live a life of service as doctors to their people. Service is pretty much all I talk about that gives life meaning but, my words seem to fall on deaf ears too often. It seems that people don't want to change themselves but want to find a drug to change them. The curanderos see the intentions of each person but, have no reason to turn most people away. For the one in a thousand people who are seeking the herbal drugs for the right reasons, I apologize. As I've said before, most of you are wasting your time and money. Go out and love someone. Help someone. Give from the heart. Every day of life is a treasure that so many fortunate people waste with meaningless tasks and thoughts. Intelligence isn't a virtue. That is one of the lessons that herbal drugs can give because the experience can be humbling if you are lucky. If you knew you were going to die in a few weeks but, didn't know how what would you do differently? That's how you should live all the time except you still have to go to work and sell refrigerators. Aloha, kahuna Lamaku.
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        Thu, May 8, 2008 - 12:49 PM
        >> No drug has ever made my life more meaningful <<

        Sure, they don't *make* you do anything. They offer experiences and sometimes deep insight, especially to those who are open and prepared. And experiences are one force that can give life meaning, for me at least.

        >> or given me a direction to take <<

        Maybe you weren't really listening?

        >> Intelligence isn't a virtue. <<

        perhaps, but it neither is stupidity. Intelligence is a very useful tool. And like all tools, it can be misused. The key is balance of mind and heart.

        heart-mind!

        love,

        -beb

        PS service is very powerful, for that I concur!
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          Thu, May 8, 2008 - 3:55 PM
          Hi B E B. We live in a drug culture where people think drugs are the answer when they can only assist a person who is ready. Maybe I wasn't ready. However, I achieved becoming a kahuna without drugs. Under the right circumstances I would use a drug to gain insight. If you do not have the right question to ask, the drug cannot give it to you. From my experience most people don't know themselves well enough to have the right questions to be answered and for them the drugs will only enhance that blindness. Also, in this case stupidity is not the opposite of intelligence. The mind's cohort is the heart. The intellect is overused in modern society where the falseness of ownership isn't understood and where the obsession with the self is encouraged when in fact individuality is a form of weakness not strength. Family is strength. Without a group to belong to, a person is nothing as we are spirits not bodies. To value the individuality is to value being alone. Being alone is a form of torture. The concept of individuality is indeed a teaching that undoes the truth that we are all one being created from the body of God and are therefore also gods. The heart is the one capable of pulling this all together for the spirit to experience. No amount of intellect will help unless the intellect realizes that it needs to get out of the way. This is where some people believe that they need to destroy the ego when in fact they just need to become wiser and in control of their behavior. Aloha, kahuna Lamaku.
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            Fri, May 9, 2008 - 5:34 AM
            Friends,

            It may be wise to distinguish between "drugs" and sacred plant teachers.

            There are many of us who feel these are two very different discussions.

            Respect,
            Veg
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              Fri, May 9, 2008 - 7:31 AM
              Veg - important point. When it comes to something that naturally grows out of the earth and is consumed without human processing changing its natural structure, how could one argue against it? One might as well argue against eating an apple. If we were truly "enlightened" then we could live on air, right? But we are animals here on this planet, part of the flaura and fauna - which also explains the bad behavior of the shaman - even our God fearing, western christians are known sometimes to use their spiritual "power" for seduction, even seduction of children.
              I trust the plants more than I trust humans in some ways
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                Fri, May 9, 2008 - 8:02 AM
                D-

                So true.

                There are people in every walk of life who abuse power - shamans, doctors, priests, auto mechanics. It's a "human thing", not a "shaman thing" and most definitely not a "plant thing".

                People who are flawed are flawed regardless. Plants aren't guaranteed to help that. They may. They may not. But they're certainly not the cause.

                "I trust the plants more than I trust humans in some ways"

                Me too. <grin>

                Respect,
                Veg
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                  Fri, May 9, 2008 - 10:11 AM
                  Hi Vegetalista. I agree that predatory behavior can come from any type of person but, it's worse when it comes from a person who is otherwise revered. Also, sacred plant teachers cannot teach something that a person is incapable of learning. It then becomes drug abuse. Even judicious use of plants can produce unknown deleterious effects in the human body. I just learned that many plants I thought were safe are not. Here is list of plants that cause liver inflammation; Black radish, Noni, Ginseng, Echinacea, Gingko Biloba, and Centarium Umbellatum. The information is at www.TMG.org. Aloha, kahuna Lamaku.
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                    Fri, May 9, 2008 - 11:20 AM
                    guys i know this is your favorite discussion but the topic was about somehitng else
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                      Fri, May 9, 2008 - 11:33 AM
                      i was talking about the drug or sacred med discussion veg and lamaku, lamaku why do you always write a paragraph? i have never seen you say less than a paragraph, it gets so tiring reading you and whoever your not in agreement with go back and forth, lol! just joking , mostly...lol the topic is about innappropriate behaviour from healers, and i beleive it happens with a lot of healers a lot of whom do not use medicines. being a healer is a position of power that can be abused and has been through the ages, so lamaku it does not make any sense your , well if they are gonna take drugs (as you say) thats gonna happen attitude, see what i mean. you come in with that doo doo for what reason, you are a bit on a high horse i guess, your own opinions have you fixated. sorry if my haclkles are up you are rather nervy and brutish with your opinions and in this case completely wrong, i am happy you are sacred medicine and drug free lamaku its sooooo perfect for you, i love you like that, but nothing is more nauseous than a preacher, sacred medicines have helped many people to come closer to the light and heal great suffering.
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                        Fri, May 9, 2008 - 11:49 AM
                        Hi Shel. Pardom me if I've seen too many people destroy their minds and bodies seeking enlightenment with herbs. I'll say it again. Most people shouldn't bother because they are not ready for it and have no where to go with anything they learn. Experience is great but, without the ability of the knowledge to become wisdom through application what real benefit does it have? Taking a sacred herb under the right circumstances with the right attitude and with good guidance can be a great thing. If that is all a person ever does and gets caught up in taking the herb as a lifestyle, I pity them. John "Lame Deer" had to choose between the peyote way or the way of the sacred pipe because a serious person cannot follow two masters. He chose the sacred pipe. I'll leave it at that. Aloha, kahuna Lamaku.
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                          Fri, May 9, 2008 - 11:53 AM
                          you must be right because yah said it , right? lol
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                            Fri, May 9, 2008 - 3:45 PM
                            Traveling, on my way down there now... in Mexico but tomorrow Costa Rica. Somehow my questions didn't even come close to being answered so I think I'll just go there and ask him myself.
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                              Wed, May 14, 2008 - 4:25 AM
                              well you should watch the video i posted. if you don't want to, someone already said the main point; shamans are human.

                              the guy in the video just goes further to state that we can't expect shamen or healers or native tribespeople to be in any way free of the flaws that we find in general humanity. it is actually really unfair to judge them against some standard other than the regular humanity one. they aren't saints and it's surely a white man's folly to worship them as such.

                              and again, nothing is black or white, good or bad. every person has something saintlike about them and something you might consider vile, it is the natural makeup that balances humans and makes them beautiful interesting and unique. so when you go there do put your personal bias box of judgments and aside and treat your teachers as imperfect human beings like everyone else.
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        Wed, May 14, 2008 - 4:16 AM
        i completely see and value your point, but agree only partly. it's very important for people to understand the purpose of drugs in their lives when partaking; what these drugs can and cannot do for them.

        if you find drugs don't provide you with anything super useful then it's great that you recognize that and use other methods to achieve whatever. but if mushrooms for you are just like running a few miles, then, that's just you, and it would be unfair to project that experience onto others.

        i might as well mention here that drugs have been an important part of my life and each and every one has contributed most positively to my development, and i don't mean just hallucinogens. they have helped me get over so many of my issues, that i don't know how it would have been possible otherwise. their ability to change perceptions allows you to learn to navigate away from your reality tunnels and the consequent ruts that form around them. it gives you a better sense of objectivity, and to see more of "the big picture" by reflecting on situations from different perspectives. sure it's great if you don't need substances to get you there, which increasingly i don't, but many people live their lives "naturally" unaware that they're in any sort of changeable subjectivity. i would say that for me it's a door, and if given the proper respect, there is a lot that any drug can teach you about yourself.

        but yea going back to your point, we'd both agree that being reckless or indulgent with them will lead to no such enlightenment.
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          Wed, May 14, 2008 - 9:57 AM
          Hi Dasha. I'm lucky. I have modalities at my disposal that allow me to address difficult issues. Using them on others is extremely enlightening. While I'm sure your sacred experiences have helped you greatly, I would would suspect that some of that is gained from a new perspective as opposed to actually being healed and relieved. People I work on often forget they ever had the problem to begin with. They don't feel better. They simply don't feel the pain or remember the trauma, etc. They are back to normal and able to engage their life as they did before. They also get an idea of the profound nature of the holy spirit. The sacred drugs may help you in your ability to live a productive life and for that I am grateful. However, the two modalities do not produce equal results. I will say that the use of marijuana reduced my ability to pray effectively and later came to find out that it suppresses the intellect greatly. This was determined by my kahuna through psychometric analysis. I was only told about the readings after he passed away. I'm not sure why. When I was on mushrooms I felt connected to everything. It was a good experience. To say I got nothing out of it would be stupid. However, it didn't actually connect me to the earth's energy. It was my brain chemistry giving me that experience. That is why it didn't make my life more meaningful. I could see why people get into it but, for the most part it's a trap. When you actually connect to powerful energies the need for drugs falls away for the most part. My kahuna used 2CB once. His experience was completely different from what everyone says should happen because his psyche was unlike the average person. One experience actually taught him something that changed his life and the way he was doing things with Huna. That can happen if you are ready and most people are definately not. Not in this materialistic society anyway. Aloha, kahuna Lamaku. PS- thanks again for the video. I love how his experience "woke him up".
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            Wed, May 14, 2008 - 12:00 PM
            Well, for me, I don´t think that rationalizing this type of behaviour away is the point. Anytime a professional takes sexual advantage of a client there are consequences and repercussions. Being a shaman does not give you the rights to do this in any form.
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              Mon, May 19, 2008 - 1:43 PM
              Shel wrote: so well put arun, ditto for me bro, this issue is the great divider, using icaros and power to seduce people that are under the influence of medicine is a nasty result of working with spirit without proper humility and willpower, many people trip over this obstacle in the medicine way unfortunatley. it is considered very bad and an absolute no no. invasive behaviour is so unthoughtful. people who do that usually say they are doing healing on a deeper level when they get confronted with it by others. thats not supported very well by the stories from people that have been invaded on this level. it has a lot to do with charismatic energy built up around the shaperson, they are centric to the ceremony therefor channeling a lot of energy, power. power as we all know corrupts completely unless one maintains humility and some awe at the beauty of creation and ultimatley respect for the sanctity of life. follow your heart in this, making ones opinion known helps support the consensus that this is wrong, thanks for posting the topic


              Very well said Shel!

              I arrive in Iquitos in a few more days and I am thinking that I will just go to the location where Don Guillermo Arevalo does his work and ask him directly, I´m quite curious as to what he will say.
              Seems I hear there are others who have been doing this as well so perhaps a direct confrontation with each of them might be in order, then I´d post their replies here.
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                Mon, May 19, 2008 - 2:54 PM
                I think that the reason that confusion, shock, disillusionment, etc., so often arise when there are reports about misbehavior by shamans is that there is the widespread impression that shamanism is a religion, and religions (as we all know) urge moral and ethical conduct, and therefore religious leaders should be moral exemplars...

                But shamanism is not a religion, a doctrine, set of beliefs or moral codes. Shamanism is a kind of technology -- it is the technology of negotiating and handling and managing spiritual forces. A shaman is someone who is skilled at practical, hands-on work with the spirits. Having these skills does not mean that a person is saintly, enlightened, or even a good person -- any more than having skills in computer programming or playing the violin does. And, on the other hand, the fact that a person may have personal flaws and weaknesses does not necessarily mean that he is not a good computer programmer, violinist or shaman.

                But people who go to shamans have the right to expect ethical conduct from them, especially since it is a therapeutic situation and the person who has engaged the shaman is in an extremely vulnerable situation. Medical doctors, psychotherapists, dentists, etc., have all been known to sexually abuse their patients or clients, but this is kept in check by the fact that, if exposed, it can lead to losing licenses and other consequences. Unfortunately, shamans have sometimes been allowed to get away with it. People need to be clear that this is unacceptable behavior from a shaman as much as from any other therapist. Otherwise, it will keep on happening.
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    Tue, May 20, 2008 - 4:17 AM
    I was shocked to read your post. I have known Guillermo for many years, and I have never heard (or seen) of anything along these lines. He is a very modest, sincere, serious and dedicated individual.

    The Amazon is a rumour factory, so caveat emptor when it comes to believing the rumours. Anybody who is good, and successful will 100% certainly be the subject of malicious and malign stories. That's the Amazon!

    with regards

    Howard
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      Tue, May 20, 2008 - 11:03 AM
      Thanks Howard. I'm surprised that it took this long for someone to mention that possibility. No matter what you do or how good you are, someone will always choose not to like you and amongst those are going to be a percentage of sociopaths who believe their own lies. It was true for my teacher as well and he was a saint. Aloha, kahuna Lamaku.
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        Tue, May 20, 2008 - 1:11 PM
        interesting topic guys,
        i have read the whole thing and felt like commenting...

        remember that there is always balance, and those who seek a master will always but themselves in a position of possibly finding themselves a victim.

        in society, behaviour that you have talked about is not acceptable, but if you can't look out for yourself ,
        ask yourself who to trust, who to emulate, who to learn from then,
        is it not your responsibility to remain in control of yourself until you do know.

        Self responsibility, clearing up your own mess and questioning yourself on what action or intention you follow,
        is all too easily ignored or passed onto the person you 'expected' to be different...

        don't assume, don't expect, and follow your own path, then you will only learn to know the truth of yourself and who you can be.
        you will never be tainted by others .....if you follow your own life path and own it from the beginning

        blessings
        Shamanka
        xxx
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      Mon, May 26, 2008 - 6:16 AM
      The Amazon: where rumors are more common then mosquitoes, and the truth is less common than snow.
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        Tue, May 27, 2008 - 8:00 AM
        Nicely said!

        Still, remember that, in small-scale traditional societies, gossip can have positive social value. It is a way of enforcing social norms in the absence of more formal systems. Not only does the fear of gossip keep people from violating social norms, at least ostentatiously; but gossip is also a way for the community to express its judgment on someone's behavior in a way that, first, will reach the ears of the offender and, second, not be attributable to any one person, who might otherwise be vulnerable to vengeance. And gossip is a "weapon of the weak," which can be used by the oppressed or less powerful against the rich, the powerful, and, in a male-dominated society, the male.

        -- Steve
        singingtotheplants.blogspot.com/
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          Wed, May 28, 2008 - 8:36 AM
          "Still, remember that, in small-scale traditional societies, gossip can have positive social value. It is a way of enforcing social norms in the absence of more formal systems."

          Alas, this gossip appears to be happening not in the closed community of a small village, but in a much wider cultural setting. In a small-scale society, the gossipee would have some recourse to defend him or herself and would be available to speak with those who had doubts. Here, the gossip just spins out of control and people believe the words they find most convincing or that most closely target their own emotions, fears, and insecurities.
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      Tue, June 3, 2008 - 11:04 PM
      There are many important and well stated ideas in this thread. But there is one element that is conspicuously missing; ELDERS. In America, we gravitate to "shamanism" and other forms of "spirituality" because they allow a level of creativity, experience and expression - like "sacred plant teachers" - or dance or physical touch that have been painfully repressed in the Judeo-Christian traditions. In our enthusiasm, we tend to leap before we look and, 9 times out of ten, take the "shamanistic" tradition out of context. It's all confusion and resentment from there.

      Across Africa, Asia and Latin America, the so-called shaman comes from what we might call an earth-family tradition. Within those cultures, in spite of their astonishing range of diversity, you will find a common thread of ELDERSHIP. So, if you are a shaman, there are ELDER shamans who guide you according to the folkways, mores, values and laws of your society. More times than not, your family provides the first ring of such elders, followed by your neighbors and the members of your shamanic society, no matter how loosely defined it may be. The concept is hard for Americans... Lamuku hit the nail on the head many times: You have to be ready. And the best way to get ready is to have someone - an ELDER - guide and protect you from your own misunderstanding. This is equally true if you are a shaman-to-be or a plumber.

      Likewise, if you are just a simple seeker, the exact same is true. When you are seeking a shamanistic teacher or mentor, you are seeking a father or a mother figure. So, in the same way that you would not go get drunk and pass out with your father or your mother's coworkers, you would not even THINK about putting yourself in that position with someone you intend to learn the discipline from. If he offered you a whiskey, the proper response is "no, thank you sir." Even if some "medicine plant teacher" is part of the path, you ain't taking that until you've been under this person for years. YEARS. How old were you when your parents first saw you drunk, if ever??? Think about that. The shaman is your ELDER. Treat him with respect and he will reciprocate. This probably flies in the face of conventional thought on who or what a shaman is, but it's the bona fide truth. I encourage you to test it.

      Too many times, the American seeker shows up at the village or wherever the ELDER may be found, with this shoppers' mentality. You think you're the first, second or even the tenth American to show up unprepared, impatient, impetuous but loaded with cash??? This microwave spiritual transformation is a joke. There are no magic bullets. You have to be willing to change the way you think, speak, act, eat, drink, sleep, dress... In order to become the you that's atuned to the vibration of the living universe. It's not the shoes, folks. So, although I do not condone abuse, I know for certain, that more than half of the time, the aspirant can prevent any such happening by screwing his or her head on right BEFORE trekking off to the Amazon!

      Awo Femi
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        Tue, June 3, 2008 - 11:39 PM
        Hi Awo Femi. That was well put and correct. We have the same dynamic in Huna. The elders are called Kapuna and many are either lore holders or lore founders. Over time some things seem to be learned almost by osmosis. They teach by example and by their subtle energies as well. I find that stories told by the elders while in their presence to have the most powerful teaching effects. Thanks for your input. Aloha, kahuna Lamaku.
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    Mon, May 26, 2008 - 8:23 PM
    Hello Jeb,
    I think what you are asking is....is Guillermo Arevalo someone I can trust?
    I think you are wise TO TRUST YOURSELF to decide that. There is alot of strong emotions amongt people on this tribe
    about abusive behavior among Ayahuasceros.
    I intuit that your path is sincere in your desire to discover what Ayahuasca has to offer you.
    Many blessings on this journey, Julie